Groups Mount Annual Fight Against Rape

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Various groups are using everything from shoes to bright blue T-shirts to get the public’s attention this week and kick off Sexual Assault Awareness Month.

The Santa Barbara Rape Crisis Center and several on-campus organizations have planned rallies, films and workshops throughout April. The center is scheduled to host a press conference and a kick-off rally, titled “Pathways to Peace,” today at the De la Guerra Plaza in downtown Santa Barbara. Spokeswoman Alena Donovan said Assemblywoman Hannah-Beth Jackson (D-35th District) would attend the rally.

Sexual Assault Awareness Month was brought to California in 1996 when then-Assemblywoman Kerry Mazzoni (D-6th District) sponsored a resolution to designate April as Sexual Assault Awareness Month in California. The resolution has been renewed each year since. In 2003, Assemblywoman Jackson introduced a resolution to renew it.

Today’s rally will feature a display of shoes.

“We will be using 350 pairs of shoes to represent each of the survivors we served last year,” Donovan said. “[The shoes] will form a pathway; on one side of the pathway will be facts and statistics about rape, and on the other side are suggestions of steps people can take in their community.”

Donovan said the center would bring the shoe display to campus Wednesday and lay it on the lawn in front of the Women’s Center.

A UCSB group, Students Stopping Rape, is holding its “It Affects Me” campaign this week on campus. The group is showing Abby Epstein’s documentary “Until the Violence Stops” tonight in Girvetz Theater at 8. Admission is free and an audience discussion is scheduled to follow the film.

The group is also planning a rally at the Arbor on Thursday from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Sarah Crowley, a senior geography major and student coordinator for the group, said the organization has grown out of a desire to start a campaign to inform the public of the effects of rape.

“We wanted to address how rape and sexual assault affect women,” Crowley said. “Men are affected differently; women of color are affected in different ways. Rape and sexual assault affect everyone on a college campus. Our environment includes rape and our environment affects us.”

Crowley said the group has been asking students to pick up blue “It Affects Me” shirts from the Women’s Center and to wear the shirts in support of the campaign. The group is also asking students to write one or two sentences on how rape has affected them. These anonymous statements will be read out loud at the Thursday rally while a ball of yarn is thrown back and forth among the audience, forming what Crowley called a human web to show the connections between people.

“We are connected through a real negative thing, but in the end, we put a positive spin on the connection,” Crowley said.

Susan Landgraff, a junior psychology major and media intern for the Women’s Center’s Rape Prevention Education Program, said Students Stopping Rape has also been asking people to sign a pledge to help the fight against rape.

“It Affects Me started as a way for UCSB to educate and promote understanding, whether you know someone or something happened to you,” she said. “Whether you were walking home or had your ass grabbed on DP and you feel bad about that.”

Take Back the Night, another student group, is organizing several events for next week. The events include a self-defense workshop, an open-microphone night, a day of workshops for rape survivors and a screening of “Sisters and Daughters Betrayed” - a documentary on Asian sex trafficking - followed by a discussion. The week is scheduled to conclude with a rally the night of April 15 in Anisq’ Oyo’ Park. The rally will feature bands, student performers, a march and testimonials. Friday will be a day of reflection at the Women’s Center.

Maria Saltzberg, a sophomore environmental studies major and co-chair of Take Back the Night, said the group is a nationwide organization that has been active at UCSB for over 30 years.

“We have been largely successful in educating the community about sexual violence and giving survivors a voice and protection,” she said.

Take Back the Night’s purpose is to inform people about sexual assault and protest what it calls a climate of fear, Saltzberg said.

“We aid women in finding and demonstrating their empowerment, provide a forum for women to make their voices heard and create an environment in which survivors of sexual assault can begin to heal,” Saltzberg said.

Max Anders, a sophomore sociology major and co-coordinator of Men Against Rape, said his group would hold a workshop during next week’s Take Back the Night events.

“[It’s] on irresponsibility, masculinity and why men are essential to the reduction of sexual assault,” Anders said.

What Is It, Exactly, That Affects All of You People?

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by Susan Landgraff and Meredith Donin
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This week on campus you have probably seen people wearing blue shirts that read, “It Affects Me.” “What,” you may be wondering, “affects them? I can think of lots of things: global warming, upcoming elections, the weather.” Maybe you are too busy to ask what the shirts mean; maybe you are speeding by on your bike or maybe you don’t feel like asking strangers about their clothing choices for the day. We’ll give you the scoop.

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. It Affects Me is part of a campuswide campaign to raise awareness about rape and sexual assault in our community. Don’t think you’re affected? One woman in four, by the time she reaches the age of 22, will be the survivor of a rape or an attempted sexual assault. Do you know four women? Chances are that you do. This is just one reason why it affects you!

It also affects you because you live in a world where women are not safe even from men they know. You live in a society where women are blamed for a crime that men commit; you have grown up in a society that perpetuates the myth that rape survivors lie, a myth that keeps them from reporting because they fear that they will be blamed. As a man, you live in a society where women often do not trust you because they cannot distinguish between a man who is dangerous and a man who is not; you live in a society where rape is allowed to happen!

The It Affects Me campaign is about speaking out about this violence against women in our community and helping to make a lasting change by eliminating sexual assault. In order to achieve this goal, we must always believe people when they say that they have been sexually assaulted. Understand what consent means - active, positive participation that is freely chosen by all participants. Silence cannot be assumed to mean “yes.” Accept “no” the very first time it is said. Never blame survivors for the violence perpetrated against them. Do not be a man who is proud of not raping, while failing to take action to change the men that do. Speak out against rape jokes and degrading references to women such as slut, ho, pussy, bitch and skank. Never voice, believe or support the idea that a woman wanted it; no one would ever ask to be raped.

Hopefully you are pissed off about the problem of sexual assault and rape in our community and, at the very least, hopefully this has made you think about these issues. To learn more or help us in the fight against the epidemic of rape and sexual assault, come by the It Affects Me rally Thursday, April 8 in the Arbor area. There will be games and information from 11-2 p.m., and at 12 p.m., we will make a human web to demonstrate the connection that we all have to rape and sexual assault.

There are also lots of ways to get involved with a student group dealing with these issues. Men Against Rape is an all-male group that meets Thursdays from 6-8 p.m., Take Back the Night is a women’s group that meets Mondays from 5-7 p.m., and Students Stopping Rape is a coed group that meets Wednesdays from 5-7 p.m. All groups meet in the Women’s Center library, and new members are always welcome. For more information or resources regarding rape and sexual assault, contact the Women’s Center at 893-3778.

Susan Landgraff is a media intern with the Rape Prevention Education Program and Meredith Donin is a peer educator.